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Samoa Victim Support Workshop, July 2013

19/6/2014

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I was privileged to spend some time with some gorgeous girls in Samoa last year. As my blog posting has been sporadic-at-best as of late, this has sat in my 'drafts' way too long! 

Background


In 2013 I was planning a family holiday to Samoa.  As someone passionate about social justice, I like to ‘give back’ to the communities I live in and visit. I had helped organised an aid package to go to Samoa Victim Support Group previously, and I thought I may be able to offer a workshop to the girls at their residential shelter. Wellington-based charity SpinningTop connected me to their President Lina and we organised for me to provide a workshop for them.

What I Did 

When we arrived in Apia I met with Lina at the SVSG offices and she gave me more background on their organisation.  We discussed what I would be teaching the girls and I gave Lina a couple of boxes of supplies I had brought with me –  Air NZ had kindly agreed to transport these for free.  The boxes contained some donated stationery items, disposable sanitary pads donated by Kotex, as well as re-usable packs from Days For Girls NZ (containing underwear, cloth pads, and a wash cloth).

I spent a morning with approximately 30 girls - the girls were fantastic and really engaged, and the staff were very supportive.  The girls were gorgeous, so full of smiles and laughter. They are survivors for whom I have the utmost of respect for. Lina had told me some of their stories, and these girls have all been on traumatic and heartbreaking journeys. Most of them are with SVSG because they are survivors of sexual violence, for many of them this is incest. Many of them have been pregnant as a result of this violence. Tragically in many cases these girls have been disowned and blamed for bringing shame on the family. SVSG provides safety, education and a home for these girls. SVSG also manages the legal process to bring justice for these children.


The girls had lots of questions and I felt like we could have spent a lot more time together. The level of knowledge and understanding of how their bodies work was very low.  Most knew very little about the menstrual cycle, pregnancy and childbirth - despite there being pregnant girls and girls who had already birthed in the group. My (then 10 month old) daughter Nina accompanied me and I found that having her there was a good ‘icebreaker’ with the girls.  The girls enjoyed chatting and playing with Nina as they warmed up to me. As it turned out Nina ended up sleeping in my front-pack for most of the morning as I taught - it was more than 30 degrees in the classroom so we were rather sweaty by the end of it!

I was a little taken aback when TV cameras arrived just as we were starting. They filmed the introductory part of my session and then in the middle of the session I was called out for an interview.   I was a little anxious about this as had had no warning and I wasn't sure what angle they were going to take, but I kept it very neutral and emphasised the importance of all people having a good understanding of their bodies and sexuality.  It came across well on the news that night.


I left SVSG feeling like what I had done that day with the girls was but a drop in the ocean. I felt like I had empowered the the girls with knowledge of their bodies, but also knew there was so much information we didn't cover.  SVSG were hugely grateful for the workshop, but I wanted to do more. These girls really touched my heart. There is a huge need for ongoing body/sexuality education as well as antenatal education for the pregnant girls.  SVSG has been on my mind a lot since.    

Looking Forward

Earlier this year SpinningTop approached me to see if I would be interested in offering a more comprehensive programme for the girls at SVSG.  With SpinningTop's support, I am returning to provide a one-week programme in August 2014.  I am currently fundraising for supplies (food, baby formula, educational supplies) for SVSG and am hugely appreciative of any donations.  For more details on this project, please click here.

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6/7/2014 06:23:32 pm

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6/7/2014 09:21:37 pm

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7/7/2014 12:29:24 am

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7/7/2014 01:37:06 am

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